Online dating is becoming very common day by day as it is more helpful when you are busy and when you want to find and flirt with someone beyond your social network. Before getting into anything you should know some common rules, norms and probable errors of that thing. Let me tell you some common mistakes that people commit on online dating sites.
Don’t you get too personal?
Sitting with your laptop or pc behind the screen and chatting is definitely comfortable. Being comfortable doesn’t mean you can talk about anything or ask anything or tell anything which can make other person uncomfortable. Asking questions to know the person is cool but it will better to think if you will be comfortable to give away such info about yourself.
Too many emoticons and texting jargons-A No
Many people really don’t like lots of emoticons. I am not asking you to not use them but it will be better if you use them moderately. Okay, I agree that your texting or internet jargon knowledge is impressive but kindly keep in mind that the person on the other end may or may not have that expertise and this may result in distracted conversation. It also gives the impression of you being in rush. I am sure you don’t want to give away such an impression and push away your online date.
Accidental Insults- Most common unintentional mistakes
You are trying to flirt with the person, writing something as a joke or a bad pun or being sarcastic trust me there are serious chances of being misunderstood. It’s good to be funny but then it should be clearly funny so that person don’t take it otherwise as they are not hearing your voice so they can sense it nor they can see your expression so be careful while you write something or anything which can sound different from what you actually mean.
Don’t hit send that often
By this I don’t mean you should interact less but I mean that you should other the opportunity to keep their point instead of giving them premature response.
Following these rules while using online dating site can easily eliminate you from the group of singles and invite you in the group of mingled.
Don’t you get too personal?
Sitting with your laptop or pc behind the screen and chatting is definitely comfortable. Being comfortable doesn’t mean you can talk about anything or ask anything or tell anything which can make other person uncomfortable. Asking questions to know the person is cool but it will better to think if you will be comfortable to give away such info about yourself.
Too many emoticons and texting jargons-A No
Many people really don’t like lots of emoticons. I am not asking you to not use them but it will be better if you use them moderately. Okay, I agree that your texting or internet jargon knowledge is impressive but kindly keep in mind that the person on the other end may or may not have that expertise and this may result in distracted conversation. It also gives the impression of you being in rush. I am sure you don’t want to give away such an impression and push away your online date.
Accidental Insults- Most common unintentional mistakes
You are trying to flirt with the person, writing something as a joke or a bad pun or being sarcastic trust me there are serious chances of being misunderstood. It’s good to be funny but then it should be clearly funny so that person don’t take it otherwise as they are not hearing your voice so they can sense it nor they can see your expression so be careful while you write something or anything which can sound different from what you actually mean.
Don’t hit send that often
By this I don’t mean you should interact less but I mean that you should other the opportunity to keep their point instead of giving them premature response.
Following these rules while using online dating site can easily eliminate you from the group of singles and invite you in the group of mingled.
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